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The perks and pitfalls of dating as a foreigner Luke, a year-old Brit living in Nantong, Jiangsu Province, was enjoying a stroll through the park with his new friend, a cute young Chinese doctor, when their conversation came to a screeching halt. Maybe you could be my boyfriend. Luke, who works in education, has traveled and lived all across China since coming here in , most recently settling in Nantong.
In that time, he's found that being young and foreign not only attracts the attention of locals, but adds to his popularity in the gay dating scene, which can sometimes lead to cultural misunderstandings, or, as in this case, an excess of enthusiasm. Sometimes, instances of Chinese guys coming on too strong, he says, stem from a misapprehension of Western culture. The doctor, for example, having heard that Westerners were more "direct," assumed this meant that he should "directly" ask Luke if he wanted to be his boyfriend.
Like Nick, Luke says he often draws more attention than locals on dating apps, which he has mixed feelings about. Still, he admitted, the fact that his popularity derives from his "foreignness" makes him feel uncomfortable.
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Although Luke is open about his sexuality and is out to all of his family and friends in the UK, he doesn't plan to come out to his Chinese colleagues. Among his gay Chinese friends, he adds, many have come out to their families without being rejected. Of course, culture shock still exists in intercultural dating scenarios. For instance, Kerr said, while in the US, it's still strongly expected that the dominant or more masculine partner foot the bill, in China it's rare that he's allowed to pay, as he's considered a guest in the country.
Another big difference is attitudes toward sex.
And like others, Kerr has experienced the mixed blessing and curse of being a foreigner: Sometimes it can make people seem insincere. Yet a more positive spin on many Chinese men's attraction to foreigners is the fact that it allows them to escape the baggage of their own culture, and express themselves in a whole new way, he said. He said terms such as "potato queen" a gay Asian man who prefers to date Caucasian men , "rice queen" a non-Asian man who prefers to date Asians and "bean queen" a gay guy with an attraction to Latino men have been adopted in the community to describe interracial preferences, but added that these distinctions are beginning to fade away.
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